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Travelin’ fool

July 16th, 2005 by cowgirljules

I swear, I have found the best used car salesman ever. I didn’t know such a thing even existed, but here he is. I’m not even going to disguise it; if you’re in California and looking for a truck, go to Newman Auto Plaza and ask for Norris.

I was a little worried about the timing problem of getting in at 2 AM on Friday and having to drop my truck off in the morning and still making it home in time to pick up the kids. I was also looking for a better muffler to put on the truck (the noise is driving me crazy.) I called the dealer, and he said not to worry about it, he’d give me a car and I could pick the truck up on Saturday. Oh, and they do stock the Banks mufflers, but don’t worry about it, he’ll give it to me. Wow, you don’t usually get that kind of service once you’ve signed on the bottom line. It’s sure different than the dealer for the trailer I bought last year, and had to sic the DMV on to get my registration ten months later.

So early tomorrow morning, I head out for D.C. I’ve only been to the East Coast once and didn’t have time then to look at anything. I’m stuck in a corporate bullshit class for four days, but my evenings are free. I’m going to try to be brave and navigate the metro system, another thing I’ve never done. I’d like to see some of the sights, especially the Smithsonian Museum. I hope they’re open late.

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Cruise - sea days

July 3rd, 2005 by cowgirljules

Sea days were different. I had to learn how to relax, and I’m not very good at that. Gramma and Grampa are though, and we spent a lot of time just hanging out in one of the public spaces reading our own books. I became known as “that woman with her grandparents.” I went through all five that I brought and three from the ship’s library.

 

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There weren’t a lot of people of my generation on the ship, and the ones that were certainly weren’t single. There were a few families, and some other multigenerational bunches.

I did a lot of drinking, although never enough to get drunk. Once I discovered Jameson’s, I drank that until I decided I liked that Alaskan microbrew, and drank my share of that too. Once I got home, I bought a bottle of Jameson’s, and it’s much stronger than the ship’s version (how about that?)

I never did see what everyone raved about regarding cruise food. There was hardly anything that I couldn’t do better myself, and I learned early on not to order things that I’m outstanding at. Steak was a mistake, so I filled up on seafood, since I don’t cook much of that. The bread was great and I ate too much of that, but I found it a little awkward to be served so formally at every dinner. The one time my tour was back late and I ate in the buffet was much more to my style. I guess cruises cater to an older generation, perhaps one that has lost some of their sense of taste and is impressed by sheer quantity. Those of us who can and do cook very well and with lots of flavors might be a little disappointed. I don’t think I even gained weight, although I could probably credit that to taking the stairs when the elevators were full of fogies.

The formal nights were even more uncomfortable for me. I’m not at my best in a dress and heels and I just feel fat. I was underdressed compared to the few younger people on the ship and didn’t quite have the excuse to look frumpy that the older women have. I’m just not a heels sort of person, I guess. Gramma insisted that I get a formal picture taken, and I did, but I look fat in it, so I won’t be posting it. I look as uncomfortable as I felt!

 

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It was odd not having someone to share all of that with. Well, besides Gramma and Grampa, who were always there but didn’t go off the ship at all. I felt out of place, like I was missing a piece of me. I guess that’s how I always feel lately, but it was just accentuated on a trip that should have been shared. I doubt that it will be a problem on my upcoming business trip to D.C., because that’s not something I would automatically look for my partner on.

Next time will be a little different though. Gramma was noticing the kids on board and thinking about how mine would have enjoyed it (although they would have been really bored on sea days.) She decided to take to whole family, all four generations of us, on a shorter cruise to Mexico over Christmas. I was thinking three or four days short, but when she got home, she booked us all on an eight-day cruise from San Diego to the Mexican Riviera. That’ll be them, Mom and Dad, me, Bonnie and Rob, and all five great-grandchildren. It will be a zoo! I won’t have time to be lonely, and the kids will have something to remember for the rest of their lives.

 

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Cruise - Victoria

July 3rd, 2005 by cowgirljules

The ship was an hour late getting into port at Victoria, and we were all worried that our tours were going to leave without us. No worries, they waited, but there was a tall-ship festival in town and the buses had to take the roundabout way. Or “roondaboot” as our bus driver would say (I don’t think she was originally from British Columbia.)

 

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Our bus, the quick one, got down to the dock where our jet boat waited. No chance of this one being underfilled; the tour was booked to the gills. Again, being alone let me be quick and decisive and score a good seat towards the front and on the side.

They had outfitted us all in giant parkas and stocking caps, but it was shirt sleeve weather in Victoria. We all sat and roasted while we waited for the second bus to get their act together, and pretty soon, everyone was stripping it all off. Once everyone else got on and we started moving, I was glad to have it.

We could see our ship as we passed; in fact, I could see my window, way down on the bottom of the square ones there, two in front of the rectangular windows, which belonged to a bar. Man, was that convenient.

 

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We took about forty-five minutes to get out where the orcas were, and it turned out that we crossed the line back into the United States and were just off the San Juan Islands of Washington. There we found one of the native pods feeding and at least ten tour boats hovering around them. As long as we were slow and careful, the whales didn’t pay any mind to us at all.

 

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I saw one whale breach way off in the distance, but didn’t get a picture. In fact, I got a lot of pictures of dorsal fins in the distance, because only one came very close to the boat and that one was at the back. It was still pretty exciting—those orcas were busy feeding and weren’t going to wait around and pose for us tourists, but it was really something to see.

 

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I don’t know if it’s big enough to see, but there are two fins in that last picture. There was a juvenile orca that the tour guide said was male in with this pod, and we saw him a few times. I think that’s him in the background.

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Cruise - Juneau

July 3rd, 2005 by cowgirljules

Over the next night, we pulled into Juneau. There were four or five other cruise ships there taking up all of the dock space, so we had to tender in again. In this port, I’d signed up to do a four glacier helicopter tour and it left early. I met the bus, and unfortunately it had to stop to pick up some people from another ship. I say unfortunately because the biggest loudmouth I’d ever met was on it, and she somehow found some sort of kinship with me because we wore the some size overboots. Yeah, I don’t know either. Why do I attract these people?

As luck and weight restrictions would have it, I got bumped from the helicopter with the people I slightly knew from my ship to the one with Ms. Knowitall on it. She claimed the front seat and the rest of us were squished like sardines in the back. At least I was the sardine with the window, so I got good pictures out the window. The loudmouth monopolized conversation with the pilot, who started to cut her off even before we landed.

After a view of Juneau from the air and some spectacular mountain scenes, we overflew the Taku Glacier.

 

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The other three glaciers on the trip were smaller tributaries of this big one. The pilot took us to the mouth of the glacier:

 

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Then we went over it to find a place to land.

 

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I was really surprised at how dirty it looked; I’d expected it all to be clean white snow. But the pilot said that windstorms stir up the ground up rock and fling it back up along the glacier. Where the dark silt collects, the sun heats up the ice a little more than the rest, and that’s what causes the melted spots.

 

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We were lucky that it was an overcast day, as the blues are much more blue in the shade. When the sun hits it, the ice oxidizes and turns white.

The pilot picked a flat space to land, and we all got to get out and look around. He had put us between two crevasses and showed us a point where we could get good pictures. It touched off my fear of heights though (although the helicopter didn’t) and I didn’t want to get too close to the edge. He thought I was silly and held onto the back of my life vest so I could take a picture, and then took some for me with my camera.

 

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When it was time to leave and we were starting to get back in, the pilot stopped and suggested that we rotate so everyone could have a view. Then he promptly put me in the front seat and kicked the loudmouth to the back, although to be fair, I’d already had a window seat. I wasn’t going to argue though, and he talked to me for the rest of the trip back. He showed us medial moraine lines on the main glacier, which I vaguely remembered from my High School natural science class.

 

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He also pointed out some mountain goats on a mountainside, but by then it was raining and I couldn’t get a picture through the canopy. Cream-colored dots on a green and white mountain wouldn’t have been all that impressive of a picture anyway. Now that’s the kind of man that would make me want to stay in Alaska—nice and knows what he’s talking about.

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After I got back to Juneau, for once I had plenty of time and lots to do. I wandered through the tourist-trap stores and bought my souvenirs, and then found myself drawn in to one of the 87 jewelry stores. I’d been thinking about buying a simple ring, but everything they had was hideously gaudy. Finally, when one salesgirl abandoned me for being too picky, I wandered down to the very end of the counter and saw a display of gold rings. Some were nuggets and some were gold-bearing quartz, but they were all better looking than the diamond-crusted monstrosities that just weren’t doing it for me.

I attracted another salesgirl’s eye as she smelled blood in the water, and she started flinging rings at me left and right. I found two that I really liked, and hemmed and hawed for a long time over the cheaper one. She kept dropping the price without my bargaining, so I kept letting her. Finally I decided to say, “The hell with it,” and bought myself the first piece of jewelry I’ve ever wanted for myself. I probably only paid twice what it was really worth too, instead of the eight times it was originally marked up at. I left it there to get sized, as I have huge man-hands, and wandered off to kill a couple of hours.

I didn’t have time to go back to the ship and eat, so I got off of the main tourist track and looked for a restaurant. I found a great little fish-n-chips place, and my pick paid off, as pretty soon it was filled with crew on shore leave. I figured that they knew the good places to go, and this one certainly was. I ate my halibut and drank my Alaskan microbrew and killed time watching the float planes take off and land right across from me.

After lunch though, I was really starting to stress about getting the ring back in time to get back on the ship, since there was only a half an hour of leeway. I went and lurked back in the store, which made the salesgirl nervous, so she ran off to see if it was done. Forty-five minutes later (I think she stopped for lunch) I finally had my ring, and just in time to make the last tender back to the ship.

 

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I’ve been wearing it every day, and I’m still not used to the weight.

 

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Cruise - Tracy Arm

July 3rd, 2005 by cowgirljules

During the night after Haines, we passed Juneau and went on down to the Tracy Arm Fjord to see glaciers from the cruise ship. Now this was what I’d pictured Alaska to be like! They opened up two viewing areas on the bow, and I spent the whole day out there. I could have taken thousands of pictures, but I restricted myself to only a roll and a half. The mountains on either side were so close that it looked like you could reach out and touch them and the water was a brilliant turquoise. The further in we got, the more ice floes we saw, some with seals napping on them.

 

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I love the way this one shows the vertical geologic strata and the horizontal lines that the glacier left as it retreated. This whole fjord could make anyone a geology nut.

 

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Finally, we got to see the glacier. The Captain had decided that there was too much ice in the water to go any further, but the bow snuck past the point and we could see both the glacier and the ice field. The stern couldn’t see it.

Turning the ship was interesting; I swear, it didn’t look like there was room for it to fit crosswise. But it did, and standing at the bow, it looked as if the stern was scraping new lines into the ravine walls. Falling into that water would not have been fun.

I watched us leave too, but I did that from a lower deck with a window and a beer. My nose was cold!

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Cruise - Haines

July 3rd, 2005 by cowgirljules

On the next morning, we woke up in Haines, having gone back down the coast and up into the Inside Passage. This time we were tied to the dock, so it was much easier to come and go from the ship.

 

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The photographers were just a little annoying in making people pose as they left the ship, but they got a good one of me this time. I had a bad attitude in Sitka and didn’t see the point of having my picture taken by myself, but I got over it by Haines.

I waited until just before my tour left this time, as Haines seemed even smaller than Sitka, and then left the ship. This trip was an enclosed catamaran ride up to Glacier Point, where we took a bus up the hill, and then got outfitted for a canoe ride, and then had a short hike to the canoes. These were big plastic deals that held eleven or twelve people each, and for once, being alone worked in my favor. I got to sit in the single seat at the front of the boat and I got the best views, like this one:

 

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The lake itself was just over freezing, being glacier runoff, and was full of silt. It looks like suspended drilling mud, and was probably similar. There were a few icebergs floating around and lots of smaller pieces of ice. It was like paddling around in a frapuccino.

 

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We couldn’t get right up to the face of the glacier in case a piece calved on us or popped up from under water, but we got pretty close. We didn’t have to paddle the whole way; the canoes had a little outboard motor, but when we were close, we did so it was quiet and peaceful.

 

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Getting back was fun; our bus driver/tour guide was driving with the door open because it was fairly warm, and all of a sudden stopped the bus in the middle of the single-track road and jumped out. He came back in with a sour berry that he wanted to show us, and then we trucked on back for our boat ride back to Haines.

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Cruise - Sitka

July 3rd, 2005 by cowgirljules

The next two days we spent at sea, and we couldn’t even see the coastline. I was glad that I’d brought some books, and almost wished for my wastewater classes to keep me entertained on sea days. I had big plans of trying all sorts of different whiskeys to expand my horizons, but I found right off that I liked Jameson’s and stuck with that for most of the trip.

Two days after we left, we woke up in port at Sitka. It was raining and I was worried both about being on my own and getting my good camera wet, so I left it and brought my digital. That was a mistake, as I would have taken many more pictures with the good one, but I got a few. I left the ship early because I’m an impatient sort, and walked around the tow by myself. I found a crab feed and treated myself to half of a Dungeness, but I think the Alaskan ones aren’t quite as sweet as the Californians.

I’d explored the whole town and found myself finished way too early to go on my tour, but too late to get back to the ship and back. Sitka doesn’t have a big cruise ship pier, so we had to use the little lifeboats to tender back and forth from the ship to town. Town was really crowded too, as there were two other ships in the harbor and it’s not that big of a town to begin with.

 

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Our ship is the one way in the back, just barely sticking out behind the blue and white one.

I sat on a bench near the pier and waited for my tour group to meet. Finally we did, and we were off on a wildlife-watching beach trek. First off, I spotted an otter cavorting in the water, and we went over to look at it. It let us get to within ten yards and squirmed around for a while before it decided it had had enough of us, so we went on to the beach.

 

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This was a black sand beach on a medium-sized island. It was the first time I’ve ever been on a beach with no footprints, and the biologists with us were pretty knowledgeable.

 

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Here she is with a live sea star that had washed up.

Eventually, we had to catch the boat again, but this time it was for whale watching. They hadn’t seen any in the sound lately, so we went out to sea a couple of miles. There were only eleven of us on a tour for fifty, so the crew was pretty lenient about letting us go out. The waves were really rough; it felt like a roller coaster the whole way, but I didn’t get sea sick at all for this. Eventually we started seeing spouts all around us, but scattered out over several miles. One humpback did come pretty close to the ship, but of course, I didn’t have my camera out. Just as I was going down to get it (and get out of the rain that had turned to sleet,) everyone else saw a whale breech out of the water, and I was pretty sorry that I’d missed it.

In all, the tour lasted about four hours and was totally worth it. We just made it back in time for our tour boat to pick up some stragglers at the dock and shuttle us all back to the cruise ship. Then it was time for more eating and drinking!

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Cruise - leaving SFO

July 3rd, 2005 by cowgirljules

So on Friday, we were finally off, loaded onto three buses full of old fogies.

It took a while to get my particular old fogies loaded, as there were only two buses at first, and it didn’t look like out luggage was going to fit, but eventually we were moving. Some two hours later, we pulled into San Francisco and into the giant terminal next to the ship. The cruise people got Grampa a wheelchair and whisked him off while I stood in the endless line to get checked in. It must have gone faster than I thought though, because I beat them to the ship.

I immediately checked out my room and started exploring. My luggage was to be put in my room later in the day, so it was a good thing I brought a sweater—San Francisco’s always cold.

I was amazed at the tiny bathroom in the room, which was a little smaller than a standard hotel room, perfect for one person but a little crowded for two. I found Gramma and Grampa in time to go have a snack (along with everyone else on the entire ship) and then I wandered through the ship and finally found myself on the top to take pictures. We were taking off at five, so I went and got the good camera and staked out a spot that would be towards the city when we sailed. I met some nice people and took their pictures for them. I ended up running into them at least once a day on the whole cruise; they were seated at the table behind us in the dining room.

 

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Only one tug boat was along for the ride—the ship backed out on her own thrusters. When the tug left us, it spun donuts and honked its horn to wave us off.

 

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Going under the Golden Gate Bridge was pretty spectacular. Of course, I ran out of film just before we got far enough under to get a picture of the bridge with the city in the background, but I pointed out the scene to my new friends and they got one. It seemed that nobody was looking back, and most of the people missed that spectacular scene.

 

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People walking on the bridge waved us off.

 

 

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The last picture on the roll—the bridge in full sunlight.

As soon as we got out to sea, it started getting rough. I didn’t even think about taking my Dramamine until after dinner, when I was starting to regret eating, but I never was that seasick—just a little queasy. Only half of the people made it to dinner that night, and even fewer the next morning. Walking was a challenge, and even some of the crew members looked a little green around the gills. They said it was unusually rough, but meds and whiskey did just fine for me. Gramma and Grampa are old sailing dogs and they were fine, and the few kids on the ship were happily riding it like beach balls bouncing around in the surf. I guess my inner ear just didn’t expect so much motion out of what it thought was a giant hotel, because I don’t get seasick on smaller boats. It was very nice to be rocked to sleep at night though, and I slept sounder than I had in months.

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I’m ba-ack

June 28th, 2005 by cowgirljules

I’m ba-ack.

I don’t exactly know where to start. The trip was exciting and relaxing and boring all at once. I don’t want to throw up a travelogue; I’ll do a little of that when I get my pictures developed.

It took me days to learn how to relax. I’m not very good at that anyway, but long rolling days at sea with all the books I wanted and lots to drink helped me get through it. By the last day, I was a puddle of mush sliding off the seat to the deck.

When we were in ports, I happily jumped back into my old routine of being everywhere on time. That was where being alone came in handy; I could slip through the lowing herds and do whatever I wanted to without interference. I got to shop where I wanted and stop at a crab feed without consulting anyone. I got to go on exciting trips, and I always got to sit in the good seat because other people had to make committee decisions and I didn’t.

I drank too much and I napped too much, and I ate far too much. I’m not a big dessert eater, but I made myself in the spirit of cruising.

I spent a lot of time talking or just sitting with my grandparents, but I was alone too much too. It’s really weird going on a spectacular vacation like that without someone to share the joy. I had a hard time with depression as a companion, who doesn’t care if you’re supposed to be on the trip of a lifetime but shows up uninvited anyway.

Coming home was even harder. As I raced to get the dog before the kennel closed, I had purpose, but once I walked around my empty house, everything came crashing down. I just want to crawl in a hole and pull it in after me, but I had to get out and go to work, and tonight I have to get the kids so I have to look lively whether I want to or not. It’s not fair that I should feel so down after what was supposed to be such a good trip. If I had time for any emotion at all, I would feel guilty, but instead I’m just a wooden stick figure, with joints that move the steering wheel and strings to make my mouth look like it’s smiling when I’m supposed to.

Nothing external can make this all better, and I don’t know that I have the strength of will to pull it up from the inside yet.

But I’m glad I went on the trip.

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Getting ready for the cruise

June 12th, 2005 by cowgirljules

Bit by bit, I’m getting ready for the cruise.

I’ve ordered plenty of books to read and a class to try to do, although I’m not really optimistic about getting much done on that. It will be my last-ditch entertainment if the ocean days turn out to be that boring. A cruise is about having fun and relaxing, after all.

I’ve got my work situation settled, although I have to go in the hole on vacation hours and therefore won’t have any days off for the rest of the summer, and after I hoarded for months for the other company. I have bug spray and binoculars. I put extra film in my good camera case. Marci gave me some fancy new brown eye shadows and I bought an unexpired mascara.

I bought a paper journal to work on, that has a nicely textured cover to entice me. I have half of my clothes packed and I’m wishing we could bring more suitcases. I do like to be prepared, and you never know when you’re going to want your good cowboy boots. I’m a little torn between bringing the cowboy boots or the hiking boots, which will probably be more practical on things like boats and glaciers, but less stylish around town. I don’t think I’ll have room for both.

I suspect the suitcases I do get to bring will be bulging—I’m already thinking about dumping the briefcase with the class in it.

Email me your addresses, and I’ll send you a postcard—ooh, I need stamps!

I think I like the preparing as much as anything.

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